Do you know that many individuals who are to come out of an unhealthy relationship case often find themselves quickly re-entering resembling negative and often abusive relationships? Do you be assured of that this pattern is largely driven means of feelings of rejection, abandonment, low self cost, low self esteem, and a thorough need to be/feel loved, be moved wanted, secure, whole, complete, validated, wanted, needed, purposeful, fulfilled and in the way that on? Do you know however that these indispensably are the main reason for the lack of power to make clear, discerning and in good case choices at such a vulnerable time? Finally, answer you know that it is things being so possible to permanently and quickly remedy the emotional pain that comes by the ending of a relationship, to recover one not only to a civil community of inner peace but to wholeness, emotional non-dependence and self sufficiency from which nicety they can feel empowered, clear, acute and fully able to make self respecting and of good health choices in a partner? Want to learn again?
Let's face it the period of a relationship is often highly traumatic to an individual.
Not sole do few ever really ever make sound from such trauma, it is the traumatic memory of the experience itself that sets them up to frame more bad relationship choices creating a enlarging and gaping "wound" of emotional twinge, insecurity, neediness, worthlessness, mistrust and in like manner on that can literally undermine the overall status of one's life.
So is it likely to stop this destructive cycle?
Well, yea, but not in the traditional ways you may have an opinion such as grieving the loss, or the agency of undertaking some soul searching psychotherapy that purports to improve you rebuild self esteem and self value.
After a 20 year career similar to a psychiatrist and psychotherapist I ground that such approaches not only did not drudge they only made the emotional throe go "underground" into the subconscious disposition/body. There it remained actively charged and recumbent to being reactivated by triggering events so as new relationships.
The negative memories of of that kind events being inherently traumatic also do one very important and to time unrecognised thing; they literally "kick you" exhausted of your body!
So what cozen I mean by that, you challenge?
Well, there is something called Life Force Energy (LFE) or the kind of many refer to as their "Essence" or "Authentic Self" that is the cause of all one's positive money such as self esteem, self excellence, self confidence, inner strength, inner insight, courage, resilience, ability to make salubrious discerning choices, sense of optimism and well subsistence and much more that keeps common functional, alive and empowered.
Each time single experiences a traumatic event (which through the way is any event that is "fronting life" or "against you") the recollection of that event gets downloaded and stored into your take notice of/body (i.e. what many ascribe to as the "subconscious mind") and space of time there behaves as what I summons a Life Force Energy "Parasite". In other talk it lives off of and depletes your LFE from your notice/body rendering you feeling weak, irretrievable, needy, empty, vulnerable, unlovable, worthless, insufficient, deficient, dependent, confused, and essentially incompetent to look after your self.
This quality of negativity is often heightened which time a stressful traumatic event such a kinship ending occurs.
In this state the part feels extremely insecure largely because they are left by a feeling of emptiness that indispensably immediate "filling". This leads them to take heed "outwards" to others rather than "inwards" to the reintegration of depleted LFE and from this time leads them to make impulsive, out of money, and needy choices that often results in greater amount of negative relationship experiences.
So is in that place a way to stop this mischievous process? Absolutely!
The only way I require found to deal with this enigma is to help one begin to render up and reintegrate their LFE into their cast of thought/body (i.e. literally come "home") in like manner that they can feel whole, complete, secure, strong, confident, clear, in govern of themselves, at peace, patient, and on that account able to make healthy, self respecting dependence (and other) choices often for the pristine time in their lives.
The reintegration of LFE in my actual presentation is only possible when the negative memories of the new (and past) negative memories of (any) trauma is permanently and completely "erased" from the mark/body.
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