Mr. Right wants to know where to begin searching for Miss Wonderful. If this sounds remotely familiar keep reading. There is more than one way to skin a cat, as they say.
While finding Miss Wonderful may sound somewhat challenging for many men today, there could be one simple aspect many men have not quite come to completely accept or understand, at the very least. If ten men gave ten solutions to what that one aspect might be, there would probably ten different conclusions. Perhaps narrowing down the conclusions to a few common-sense methods will help extinguish this frustrating dilemma.
A typically predictable stance many men rely on when moving forward in their search for dating the right woman is to take the easy way out, the path of least resistance. Tip #1 works from the heart. Women look for love by reading emotion, behaviour and appreciation. Keep in mind that women are literally wired this way since the beginning of time. Men tend to be more visual and less emotional. Recognize that the differences are not a game. They are real and must be happily respected or the chance of winning a worthwhile date might possibly fly right out the window.
Working toward finding deeper meaning in dating will make for better dating opportunities. Tip #2 is to remember that every date-worthy opportunity, large or small must be about the journey, not the destination. Very few men actually approach a woman focused on the journey. So, begin on a new foot by focusing on personal substance and an easy-going attitude from beginning to end. Women want to feel comfortable knowing there is no hurry to make snap decisions that may feel like they are being pressured to move too quickly into a relationship. Again, always refer to Tip #1.
Tip #3 is to lighten up. Consider approaching unconventional and inconspicuous social arenas such as libraries, museums, art galleries, and places of substance. Men are more likely to meet someone with substance worthy of sharing in these types of venues.
If Miss Wonderful is already in the picture, Tip #4 is to get to know her slowly. Moving slowly and respectfully may sound like a lost art, and perhaps is. But, women innately long for these qualities in men. There is a lot to be said about old-fashioned courting even in today's fast-paced world.
Tip #5 is to become open to understanding what the value of courting really means. Talk to an older gentleman who has lived his life respecting and honouring a woman. These values used to be the only way to get a date and are still deeply desired by women today.
Meeting women is the easy part. Offering her a first and lasting impression is the hard part. Great dates don't want another man. They need the man that knows how to treat a woman with respect, love, appreciation and patience. Ironically, it works out that men are basically looking for the same thing after all.
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