Monday, November 21, 2011

Tips on Flirting With Women - 3 Tips to Help You Avoid Making Any Mistakes




Are you a little out of your element when it comes time for you to flirt with a woman? Do you sometimes feel like you just don't have the "chops" to flirt effectively with a woman? Well, you are in good company. This is one area where men are pretty much doomed to fail because the average guy just does not put in a lot of time learning how to flirt with women. So, of course that leads to a lot of mistakes being made.

Now, there are mistakes that you can make that don't have much of an impact on you, and then there are the ones that have a pretty big one. Those are the ones that you really want to avoid. Let's be honest about something, first. You are not going to get better in one fell swoop. To really get what you need to do to flirt with a woman effectively, it takes some time and some experience. So, don't have unrealistic expectations.

Here are some flirting tips to help make sure that you don't make any mistakes:

1) To flirt with a woman, you want to allow her to feel like it is just fun and not as if you are desperately trying to get somewhere with her.

The best flirtations that you will ever have with a woman are those where it really is just for fun and not for any end result. Of course, if everything goes well, then you probably will get the end result that you want. It's just, when you obviously have ulterior motives, it usually shows. And it usually takes away some of the fun.

2) You need to pay attention to more than just the words that come out of her mouth.

Flirting does not just happen through conversation. It happens through the way that you look at one another, the way that your body language is communicating to one another. It is important to learn how to talk to women so that they are attracted to you, but there are other elements that you need to pay attention to as well. Like eye contact and body language.

3) You need to let things run their course naturally.

The more natural that any interaction with a woman is, the better. Too many men approach women with a totally unnatural vibe and most women can pick up on that. When you allow things to run their course naturally, then you don't seem like just another guy out to get a girl.

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