Monday, January 9, 2012

How To Date A Perfect Woman




Every man out there would like to have the most beautiful woman in the world as his wife. The problem is that such women are hard to find, plus most men have this idea that to win over the attention of such a woman takes a rocket science approach, while in fact this is not the case. The only thing a man has to do is master the art of making a woman fall in love with him. It is very important not to confuse "falling in love" with "falling in lust", because lust is a very temporary feeling. Once a woman satisfies her lust for a particular man she will shortly after leave (much like men do the same thing). Actually, women figured out this very important lesson a long time ago: a man in lust is a lot harder to control, because once he sleeps with a woman - he loses interest in her. Thousands of years ago if a woman would try to control her man by denying him sexual satisfaction, then he would just find another woman or force sex, so this was not a good strategy. Back then women had little to no power against men, be it physical or legal, but as time passed and with more socialization women figured out how to acquire power over men. They created the strongest tool there is - bonds of love. They turned the table around and now men are fighting to get their attention.

Making her fall in love

Every man in the world can have the power to make a woman fall in love with him. And, believe it or not, it does not require radical changes in your character or appearance. Love, unlike lust, is all about psychological influence and not external beauty. This is especially true for women, as they rarely rank man's looks high when it comes to choosing a life partner. A man has to be a warrior, so to speak. Every girl out there can be pictured as a castle where a man has to lay siege because love is a process of getting through to a woman's heart and making her fantasize about her man.

Who is the most beautiful woman in the world?

Knowing what you are looking for is one of the most important things not only in love, but in life in general. One cannot find what he seeks if he doesn't know what he is looking for. That's why the first thing every man should do is figure out for himself what kind of woman will make him happy. Most men, of course, wish to have a woman with not just a pretty face, she has to be the ultimate male fantasy, extremely sexual, seductive and confident female who is promising infinite pleasures with a taste of challenge and sometimes even danger. She is always the center of attention, so from her early age she came to realize that her beauty is a source of great power and influence over men as well as her soft spot, since she is afraid to lose this power. If she is smart enough, she realizes that just being looked at because of her looks is dull and will never make her happy. A lot of men would rather worship her from afar rather than approach her, because some are simply afraid to walk up to her and start a conversation, while others only want to have sex with her. If you get her, you will have an ideal woman, but to achieve this you have to focus not only on her physical beauty but on the things other men fail to see, being blinded by her appearance - her character, habits, intelligence, sense of humor, skills, etc. You will have to worship not only her body but also her mind and soul. If you wish to conquer such woman you have to take a really close look not only at Her - what things will make her trust you, make her more relaxed and eventually open up to you, but also at Yourself - what can you offer this woman, what are your best qualities that she will admire. If you focus on only one side of this equation, then you will be limiting your potential and she will probably consider you unworthy.

Phase One: Choose the right girl

The first phase is all about getting her attention, stirring up the interest, and turning the interest into desire.

The first step in phase one is to pick the right girl. It is best you avoid the girls that do not respond to you right away. Give more weight to her unconscious responses - a blush, shyness, maybe a desire to be close to you, etc. Also pay attention to how she affects you. She might just represent your childhood fantasy, such relationship will not last long after being fulfilled. It is best to choose women that inspire you, don't chase the first girl who gifted you with her attention. Search in places you have never considered before, this is where all the excitement is. Try to avoid girls who are happy and fully satisfied with their lives. It is nearly impossible to get such a girl because there is no role in her life which you could fulfill. Slightly sad girls give you a chance to play the humor card and cheer them up, gaining their trust in the process. A woman going through a rough time or a break up may want to play out their desires to be bad and this also gives a man power and means to attract her attention. Only go for women who have a need you can fulfill.

Become her best friend

Once you have found the right girl for yourself, you have to make her come to you. Why not approach her directly? Well, sometimes this is a good strategy, but it usually makes women think that you are pursuing only your personal agenda. Becoming her friend and winning her trust while being interested in her yet keeping the distance will raise her interest in you. Never make her think that you are after something, instead make her see that you are genuinely interested in her personality and in this way you will calm any mistrust she might have towards you.

Phase Two: Turn Interest into Desire

Once a woman is interested in you, it is time to move to phase two. You have to turn her interest into desire through temptation which will touch her soft spot. Never mistake her physical beauty for reality. Living a life of virtue isn't easy, always having to tone down the dark side, which is the strongest of desires. She wants to give in to your temptation, but your temptation has to be stronger that the ones she faces every day. Everybody has a weak spot and finding hers must become your main priority at this time. When you find it, you will hold the key to tempting her. Maybe she needs a strong father-like figure, or, perhaps, she wants to be a caring mother; people are so different that the results you find may even surprise and catch you off guard. You'll have to satisfy those desires if you are to succeed with this woman. Let her play out the role she wants, but keep it elusive.

Turn Desire into Love

Finally, you've gotten to the point where she is intrigued and feelings start to grow. Her desire for you is strong but her attachment is still weak. Now you have to make her emotional. Give her enough pleasure to make her want more. A spontaneous gift or a pleasant surprise will keep her interested and bring life to your relationship. You have to be mysterious and unpredictable, so that when you are gone she will constantly think of you and long for your company. Keep her interest in you going by taking her to new places, doing new things together; make her feel like she is in a world where every day is different and she is your queen. At this point you will have the one thing every man is looking for - the most beautiful woman in the world loving you fully and unconditionally.

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