If you've ever found yourself talking to a girl you like and wanted to know how to get a girls number without risking rejection, then this might be the most important article you ever read.
Getting a girl's phone number is a crucial step to a seduction, especially a text game seduction. Without it, you can't really make anything happen.
But most guys are afraid to ask a girl for her number because they are afraid of rejection. Understandable. I've been there. But guess what guys...
Getting Her Number Is A Lot Easier Than You Think!
Seriously.
Girls give out their numbers all the time. In fact, if you are talking to a girl at a bar or a club and you guys are hitting it off even decently well (AKA she hasn't mace you yet), give you her number is not that big of a deal to her.
So don't be afraid to try.
But, in case you are still nerves, I'm going to give you...
A Rejection Proof Way To Get Her Phone Number
First I'm going to assume that you and the girl are already taking and things are going pretty well. She's smile and laughing and all that good stuff.
So assuming that you guys are hitting it off, your next step is to get her to qualify herself to you. This basically means letting her prove to you that she is someone you would be interested in.
You Can Do This By Asking Her The Question...
"You know, you seem like a really cool person. I'm curious. What would you say makes you different and unique from all the other beautiful women out here?"
This question accomplishes many things.
First, you are showing her that you are a man of standard. Beauty alone is not enough for you.
Also, you are subtly pointing out that there are many other beautiful women around you and that she is not the only one. She's got competition.
This have the effect to shifting the dynamic of the interaction so that you become the prize and she is chasing after you.
This Is A Very Powerful Attraction Builder.
So now that you've ramped up the attraction, it's time to go for the number.
Start off by saying, "You know, I told myself I would never do this again. But you're starting to make me want to break my own rule."
This will arouse her curiosity and she will ask...
Hot Babe: "Really? What rule is that?"
To which you will respond...
You: "Well, I promised my self that I would never ask for a number from someone I just met at a bar/club. You almost never meet "real" people in these kind of places. Just a lot of phonies, you know?"
She will most like reply with something like this...
Hot Babe: "Yeah, I know what you mean."
But no matter what she says, you next line will be...
You: "Well? What do you think? Am I going to regret breaking my rule for you?"
If she says "Yes" then she is basically calling herself a phony. So her likely reply will be...
Hot Babe: "Haha, no, I think you're pretty safe there."
Then you smile and say...
"Well alright, you convinced me. Here. (hand her your phone) Just punch in your number."
The beautiful thing about this method is that is really is rejection proof. You've set things up in such a way that if she says "No" to you, she is basically insulting herself.
Sneaky, sneaky.
Now the key here is to keep the tone casual and lighthearted. It's just a phone number. Don't make her feel like she's handing you the deed to her house.
Just practice this script a few times until you got is down pat and then go out there and try it. I guarantee you'll be happy with the result.
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