Women often wonder why men don't listen. There are a number of possibilities, one of which could be that your voice is irritating. If you have a whiny, high-pitched, nasal sound that is reminiscent of a poorly-tuned violin, then the image you are projecting is definitely not one of warmth, attraction, or authority.
What is fascinating about the speaking voice is that you have a better voice inside of you which is resonant, more mature in sound, and most likely deeper in pitch. To find it, you will have to learn how to power your voice by means of your chest cavity.
At present, you (and 99% of the population) are unaware of the power and presence of your speaking voice because you are using only 4 of your 5 resonators to produce voiced sound. Those 4 cavities include your voice box, throat, mouth and nasal passages. The one that is missing is your chest. When you consider the size of those 4 resonators, they cannot compare to the vastness of your chest cavity which is where your real source of power originates for good phonation.
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