How to Meet Women When You Are Shy - 3 Tips for Shy Guys To Get In Contact With Women

When you are naturally a shy guy, one of the most difficult things about dating is the act of meeting women. Shy guys are not the ones that will just walk up to a woman in the mall, at a coffee shop, or in a popular nightclub. They are the ones that see the beautiful woman they would like to approach and just have a look and wish deep down inside that they could make the move.

For guys that are very extroverted, it might seem weird that a guy would not approach a woman he thinks is attractive. For them, it is easy to just walk up to her, because they don't even think about it. They just do it. Don't you wish that you could be like that? That you could see a woman you think is pretty and just approach her like it was no big deal at all?

If you find it hard to meet women because you are shy, here are some tips that may help you out:

1. Cultivate a desire to break free from your shyness.

You have to really have a strong desire to no longer be shy before you can expect things to really change for you. When it is just a wish, that's all it will remain to be. It might sound a lot like that self help stuff when I say something like this, but that does not make it any less true. You cannot accept that you are just shy and that is the way that it will always be for you.

2. Get yourself a wing man who is extroverted.

I used to be a shy guy. That is, when it came to meeting women I did not already know. If I knew the woman just a little bit, it was not that hard for me to get things going with her. But, a total stranger? That was my weakness for sure. What I did and it worked very well, was I got myself a wing man. A friend of mine who had no problems whatsoever approaching women anywhere we went. And that really helped because over time, I started to be able to do the same thing. So, that is something that I highly recommend.

3. Use online dating sites for a while.

I would not say that you should depend on online dating completely. At some point, you have to be able to walk into a bar or a club and be able to approach women. To get started though, you can join a few sites that are free and just get used to initiating conversations with women. Once you get comfortable doing that, then you can start to branch off into every day situations.