How to Get a Second Date With Him

Okay so you manage to get him to approach you and you even manage to get the digits. So he ask you out and in the back of your mind your hoping this guy is the one that sticks around and actually turn into your future boyfriend. Well first you have to get through the first date! Well this article will give you all the 411 you need (from my personal experience) to get a second date.

Step 1: Preparation

So it's the night of your first date, and you want to look good enough to make a great first impression. Make sure you shower and brush your teeth to get that nice fresh effect. Make sure your hair is nice and tossed up and you have a sexy yet also classy outfit that stands out.

Step 2: The car ride convo (conversation)

It's around time for him to be showing up at your door. BE READY! Don't have him waiting too long, but don't run out the door like a desperate maniac either at the first sign of a horn. Be casual and reserved. Give about 45 seconds to a cleaned cut minute to come out after you hear the horn (or receive the "I'm outside phone call/text". When you get in the car be pleasant and polite, smile and casually say "hello, how are you" This will be the beginning of "the car ride convo" Generally he will respond to your introductory with a hello in return and either say his day was fine (leaving it at that) or he will begin to summarize his day up for you. Be very attentive and show him that you're listening by responding to his story and chipping in. When it's your turn to talk about your day tell him and DON'T BE LONG! No man wants to hear you go on and on about yourself. Get to know him while also telling him a little bit about you. Don't come off aggressive or demanding whatsoever and your off to a good start.

Step 3: The date

So you've reached your destination. Whether it's the movies or a restaurant (typical first date) be relaxed. Don't be all fidgety and nervous, be chilled. No guy wants a weirdo (trust me I know). If it's a movie then good, less talking and all that first date pressure, more of just watching and enjoying yourselves. Now if it's not a movie and it's a meal then on we go with the talking. More time to get to know each other. Only except this time show him you have some kind of a sense of humor, and that you're not just Ms. Serious all the time. A guy loves a woman that can make him laugh and that keeps him on his toes. Just remember a guy doesn't want a boring female. He doesn't want to be on the phone with a female that just sits there for the whole 30 minutes ya'll are on the phone and is just breathing or humming a tune. "Ugh!" Just have some kind of a personality. (Just don't be too giddy; that's weirdo quality)

Step 4: The "Drop-off" (the end)

Finally (in a good way) the date has come to an end and you had a blast and it's time to call it a night. You're laughing and smiling on ya'll way back to the car and ya'll are back on the road, and he asks what you want to do next, so he's all like "uhh you want to come back to my place for a little bit"? He's testing you! He wants to see where you're head is at. Now if you say yes, well of course he isn't going to turn it down (he's a man!) Just know if you do and you give "it" up to him (most likely) isn't going to respect you and you probably won't see that second date. If you do come back to his place and wound up being a big tease he isn't going to like that too much either. So your best bet is to keep it simple and just casually tell him you think you're done for the night and that you really had a great time but you have a early start for tomorrow. That way you said no with a great reasonable explanation, while also sounding like you got a "life".

Once he has reached your home initiate a hug, so he doesn't have to wonder whether you liked him or not, and if you want you can give him a peck on the lips/cheeks. So to sum it all up Smile Be chilled(no weirdo business) No aggression Lighten up the mood with some laughter! BE HUMOUROUS! Get to know the prime being of one another Don't go on and on about yourself, (don't be conceited) And no "freakyness" on the first night (unless you want a one night stand).