You see it all the time. Some of the world's sexiest women will be dating the star athletes or musicians.
This leads most men to see models as "unattainable". In other words, they place them on this pedestal where these women are so out of reach, so they may as well just settle for an "average" woman.
First things first, Alpha men, if you think you are settling for a woman when you think you could do a lot better - you need to get out of the relationship. She doesn't deserve to be seen through that lens, and it will only lead to some serious problems down the road.
Anyways, back to the point of this article. You do NOT need to be a famous athlete to date some of the sexiest women out there. When we see these men, we automatically make the assumption that it's the money and fame which gets those women.
But in fact, it is the underlying traits which initially brought all of that fame and money that women are attracted to.
In this article, I am going to describe these traits and how you can use them to be seen as a desirable mate by these women.
Strength of Reality
One of my best friends, with whom I used to date said it the best way.
She said that woman cannot resist the feeling of being pulled into a man's world and getting taken for an amazing ride through it.
What she is describing here is a man's sense of reality. As an Alpha man, you need to create a strong reality distortion field around yourself. But how does someone do that?
This really means that you have a grand vision for your life, and that you are actively pursuing that vision. In other words, you have some amazing goals you have set for yourself, and you're working your butt off to achieve them.
This is precisely what women are drawn to. In fact, this is a huge reason why some celebrities actually started dating their beautiful wives/girlfriends BEFORE they became rich and famous.
Need an example? Just look at Robin Thicke and his wife (hint: she was in the new Mission Impossible movie).
Short on Time
As an Alpha man, you should never see women as your main reason for existence. They should never be the primary goal. They must always be the secondary goal, or the collateral benefit of carrying out a life well lived.
If you see women as the primary goal, then it will ignite such behaviours such as jealousy and neediness.
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