Looking for a girlfriend? Let me help you out. You probably already have a pretty good idea of the type of girl you want for a girlfriend. A girl who's good looking, personable and fun to be with are the top three songs on the dating hit parade for most guys. But you know the old saying, "You can't judge a book by its cover." This axiom projects a solid ring of truth when it comes to looking for a girlfriend. On the surface, many girls appear to have walked out of a dream when in reality they walked out of a nightmare... and into your life. Some guys don't figure it out until they have become overly involved in the relationship and suddenly, they have a big problem breaking it off. They ignored the signs and now there's hell to pay. Let's try to avoid that.
Essentially, there are 4 types of girls you should NEVER date. DO NOT waste your time and energy on these types of girls. The signs are always there - look for them. Ignore them and you'll pay the price.
1) The Jealous Type - This type of girl can make your life a living hell. I speak from experience on this one. The very presence of any woman in your life (even female co-workers) will have her seeing red. The simple act of talking to a woman, any woman, will bring her jealously to the surface, sometimes boiling over into a confrontation. She will begin to go behind your back - checking your email, your phone messages and even your wallet. She will start spying on you in an attempt to "catch you" with another woman. This type of behavior usually stems from an episode with a previous husband or boyfriend who cheated on her. It is possible to change this type of girl but it's difficult and takes lots of time and patience. Only you can decide if she is worth the effort.
2) The Obsessive Type - You know the type. She can't live without you. She allows you no time for yourself. She constantly calls you, texts you and emails you. Her every thought is of you and her every waking moment is spent wondering where you are and what you are doing. Before long, you are experiencing a feeling of suffocation. This type of girl is hard to get away from. Even after breaking up with her,she will probably still text, call or email you. She may even stop by unannounced. Don't let it get to that point. Break it off at the first sign of obsessive behavior before it escalates into a problem.
3) The Marriage Minded Type - This is one type of girl you definitely want to stay away from. Fortunately, the signs are obvious and easy to read. The first time she asks you to help her pick out new curtains, walk away. If she invites you to a friend's wedding, RUN...in the opposite direction! This type of girl moves fast. Pay attention to the signs or you may find yourself walking down the aisle in a rented tuxedo wondering what happened and how you got there.
4) The Just Plain Crazy Type - Let's face it - some girls are just plain crazy. Don't try to figure out why - just get away. Don't even think about maintaining a relationship with this type of girl. These are the types of girls who will stalk you after a breakup. This type of girl is a ticking time bomb.
Final thoughts: There is no accounting for taste and some guys, when looking for a girlfriend, actually choose these types of girls. But a smart man will cut his losses and move on. Ultimately, only you can make the decision to begin or end a relationship with these types of girls. Good luck.
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