How to Create Rapport With a Woman and Keep It Going

If you're a serious minded guy and you know that sex is not the ultimate goal, you're exactly what most of the women in the dating scene are looking for. But this does not mean that women, especially the hot, in-demand ones, would automatically fall for you just because of your good intentions. It does not work that way.

Creating a good rapport, followed by an irresistible sexual vibe can be a great start to any relationship. You see, before a woman can figure out that you're one of those guys who are truly 'keepers', she needs to feel attracted to you. If she sees your good personality and your motives for going out on dates, but does not feel the sexual vibe with you, she will end up supporting you from the sidelines as a friend.

So, even if you're not just all about hookups, a hookup can be the beginning of your relationship with a woman. But the question is, how do you keep it going from that point onward?

1. Make a Woman Fall in Love and Stay in Love

You have to get inside a woman's mind so you know where you stand from the perspective. If we have to put women in a box, like they do most guys, we can start by categorizing the women you're likely to meet in the dating scene, online or anywhere else: those who are serious about relationships, and those who aren't. However, both types of women are susceptible to falling in love on the first meeting.

You will find out soon enough that there are some women who fall in love easily. These may be the same women who fall out of love quicker than others. The trick is to make a woman stay in love, so that the fuzzy feelings stay with her even after you say goodbye.

2. Make Her Feel Devoted to You

Women will devote themselves to you if they realize that they're not likely to meet someone like you ever again. Being one in a million does not mean you're better looking than any guy. It does not mean you're richer and more well-endowed. Hot men are a dime a dozen, and you know that with minimal grooming and a great sense of style, any guy can look good. So, what do you need to be completely unforgettable?

You need to connect with her in a way that she trusts herself with you. A dependable man doesn't need to tell a woman that he is dependable, and he doesn't need to flip open his bank account either. There are certain behavioral signals that women give out when they're trying to convey the secret questions they want to ask you, like 'are you the one for me', or 'can I trust you'. What you can do is to learn the tricks to be able to decipher these signals, so that you come across as a mind reader or at least a very sensitive guy.