How To Get Out of The Friend Zone

You like a girl but then you wait around for too long trying to work out if she likes you and suddenly you are friends with her and your moment has gone... You are in the 'friend zone.' When you find yourself in the friend zone you could look on the plus side and realize you have got yourself a friend for life rather than a fleeting romance. But then what if she is the one? The pain of never knowing anything more than friendship with a girl you have strong feelings for is a horrible thing. But it doesn't have to be that way.

The important thing to work out is are you looking for a relationship or are you just lusting after the girl. Acting on lust alone will get you in trouble more often than not, acting for love is another matter entirely. If you are sure you have strong feelings for the girl then you must approach the situation properly. It may seem like a hopeless situation but in fact you are in a position of strength for these reasons:

1. You know you like her and she likes you:

If you have been 'friend zoned' then you are already good friends so you know what interests you share and that you get on well. Finding common ground with a girl and working out whether your personalities are compatible takes a while and can be both daunting and full of pitfalls. This is no longer a concern and you can say for sure that she is a good match for you.

2. She trusts you:

When a girl meets a guy at the back of her mind is the worry that he wants to sleep with her and that's it. This means girls will often put their guard up and be wary of a guys intention. However she knows that you know her and like her and so this isn't just a one night stand you are looking for. The guarantee of commitment is a massive plus for any girl which puts you at an advantage.

3. You know what she is looking for:

If you are in the friend zone there is no doubt you will have heard about her failed relationships and boyfriend troubles and more importantly you will have heard her point of view on why things haven't worked out. Girls can be impossible to read and understand, you can set off an argument without realizing you have done it. But when you are friends with them you know why she gets annoyed and you can avoid doing the things that put paid to her other relationships.

If you look at the situation this way your position is enviable. All you need to know now are the tricks on how to make yourself desirable to women. Once you combine that knowledge with your advantaged position, you will be guaranteed to get out of the friend zone. Be positive and be confident and you will succeed.