Most women who have had trouble finding compatible guys and have been through many failed relationships think that things didn't work out because something was wrong with the guy. They think that guys don't approach them because "they are intimidated by me" or "they won't want to be in a relationship with a financially successful woman like myself". They also think their relationships don't work out because guys don't understand them when in reality they don't understand the guys very well either. Here are some of the biggest misconceptions that women have about men. Knowing these will help you understand men better in the future.
Misconception #1 - Guys are too scared to approach me
There is no reason for a guy to be scared of approaching a woman. It is very unlikely that she's going to beat him up, and there aren't many women out there that guys find physically daunting. Guys are never scared of approaching a woman who looks friendly. The only time a guy gets intimidated is if a woman looks cold and unfriendly, because he doesn't want to be treated with hostility.
Misconception #2 - Guys don't like women who talk about their success
Guys actually respect women who have a high paying job, their own house, and other luxuries that most women don't have. However, they don't respect women who are arrogant and have a big ego because of their achievements. If the first thing a woman talks about after introducing herself is all the big things she has achieved in her life, then a guy is definitely going to lose interest. Instead, be humble and let him learn about these things himself, and he will be more impressed.
Misconception #3 - There are not many "good" guys left
The fact of the matter is not that there are not many decent guys around, but rather that you aren't looking in the right places or that you have set your requirements so high that you end up overlooking most of the good guys. There are many guys who have a decent income and drive a modest Honda Accord who would still make good partners. They don't have to be rich, own a mansion, and drive a Mercedes in order to be funny, charming, good-looking, caring, and protective.
Misconception #4 - He won't marry me if I earn more than him
A guy is never going to hold a grudge against you if you have a higher income than him. I have a friend whose husband got laid off a few months ago, and she is now the sole income earner in the family. There is nothing wrong with this, and most men understand these kinds of situations. As long as he feels like he's being treated as the man of the household and he feels like he's needed, he wouldn't have any problem.
Misconception #5 - He's lazy and wants someone to take care of him
Many women feel that a man is lazy and just wants someone to take care of him solely based on the fact that he is in a relationship with or got married to a girl who is financially successful. The truth is far from this. If men are not able to take care of themselves and be able to provide for their partner and family, they will not feel fulfilled. Just because he is in a relationship with someone who is a lot more successful than he is doesn't mean that he is trying to take advantage of them.
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