Is She Into You? 5 Simple Steps to Finding Out Whether She's Into You

1. Body Language:

This is probably the quickest way to tell if a girl likes you. If she likes you she will probably make it pretty obvious. If she is holding your eye contact repeatedly that is a good sign, the same goes for if she is repeatedly stroking or playing with her hair. She may not even realize she is doing it but these are clear signs that she is into you.

2. Text messages:

When you exchange messages does she often respond with a question? If so she probably likes you as she is trying to keep the conversation going and hold your attention. It is sometimes difficult to know how to text a girl without seeming too forward so just act naturally and keep messages light and playful.

3. Listen to her:

When a girl likes you she will drop hints in conversation that imply whether or not they are into a guy but they can be easily missed. You must be prepared to read between the lines and take her hints. Take note of compliments but be sure not to misinterpret them, if she says you are 'so sweet' that could be a sign that she likes you romantically but it could be you are already slipping into the friend zone and she is not into you so take it in context with the other signs she is giving off.

4. Is she making time to see you?

If she suddenly has a million things on and cant spare the time to see you the she may not be that into you and it might be time to stop wasting your time with her. If she wants to see you she will be able to make time for you and vice versa. If she has cancelled a couple of times then cool down your interest for a bit and if she is interested in you she will get in touch. If not then accept it and move on, there is nothing to be gained from wasting your time on a girl who is just not that into you, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.

5. Ask her friends:

If you have gone through the above 4 stages and are still not sure whether she is into you or not then there is one option available to you which is almost foolproof and that is to ask her friends. This option may not be applicable if she is a random girl you have met in a bar but if you know anyone she knows then ask them. You can be subtle and talk about her 'situation' to begin with but eventually you should ask if she is into you and you will get a final answer, one way or another.