I learned how to charm a woman the old-fashioned way, and it wasn't fun. Months of trial and error, falling down, getting back up... having stuff backfire right in my face. That's what I'm here to save you from. My embarrassment is your gain.
Before I get into the 3 most charming qualities on the planet, and how you can develop them within yourself... let's answer a question:
What does 'charm' even mean?
Charm bracelets? Lucky Charms?
To cast a spell?
Well, that last one's actually not too far off.
See, to 'charm' a woman simply means to attract her... and yes, in a way you ARE putting her under a form of spell (but it's got nothing to do with witchcraft, I promise).
OK, now that we've shared a laugh and broken the ice...
...what do you say we get to those 3 'charming qualities'?
Quality 1: You Can Make Her Laugh
Nothing is more charming to a woman than a man who can get her giggling like a school girl - and not only that, but do it over and over again.
So, how funny are YOU?
You either are or you aren't... but if you're unsure, it's easy to find out:
Just ask a friend.
And if you find you're NOT too funny, here's what you do:
-- Watch standup comedy, and take notes (no, I'm not kidding).
-- Just practice finding the funny things in absolutely every situation that you find yourself in (trust me, it's there).
-- (If you've got a funny friend) Glue yourself to his hip.
It's unreal how much you can learn about how to charm a woman - just by spending some time with a friend who's got a great sense of humor.
Quality 2: You Mind Your Manners
Believe it or not, chivalry (in other words, being a gentleman) is by no means 'dead'.
And it doesn't take a whole lot of effort to reap the rewards, either. Open doors for her, pull out her chair as she's about to sit down... little stuff like that.
Don't feel like you've got to lay it on super-thick here... this is one of those situations where a little goes a long way.
Quality 3: You're Ambitious
Finding your ambitions is CRUCIAL in figuring out how to charm a woman.
What do you live for?
More than anything else, what gets you out of bed in the morning?
If you could do anything with your life (regardless of whether you're PAID to do it), what would it be?
YOUR unique ambitions can be anything, really... and those questions are a great place to start. Another way to find your ambitions is to look at your hobbies.
For instance, I love playing the piano... I'm a fitness freak... AND I've been an avid golf for over half of my life (on top of whatever I'm doing for actual income) and that's been PLENTY ambitious enough for me to have no shortage of women.
So find your ambitions... find your passions... and you'll have no trouble learning how to charm a woman.
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