You can impress your lover. You can make him/her love you more than she/he already does. You can get the full attention of your lover and get him/her focused only on you. Here are some tips to get your lover impressed.
be yourself! Be real! Don't assume or act what you are not. If you are an introvert, don't try to be an extrovert. If you are an extrovert, don't try to be an introvert. Trying to be what you are not will make you never to be what you are. There will always be someone out there who will love you for who you are. There is somebody out there in the world who is in search of your person, so fearlessly be yourself.
be easy-going.
Surprise your lover with gifts. This can sweep him/her off his/her feet.
learn to spend quality time with your lover. This is the greatest gift you can give to him/her.
don't be shy to say "I love you." Such simple and sincere statement can make your lover's day.
Reschedule your programs sometimes to favor him/her.
Show him/her how much you care.
lavish enough affection and cash on him/her.
be considerate! Act a little bit unlike you.
Help him/her to find solutions to his/her problems.
be open-minded and don't hold grudges.
forgive him/her when he/she offends.
Show some respect.
Reassure him/her that you care and love him/her so dearly.
Discuss interesting topics with your lover.
Handle your lover's weakness constructively and positively. Yes, he/she have weaknesses which might not surface immediately. What you make of those weaknesses will either impress him/her or grieve him/her. Nothing truly has a meaning except the meaning you give to it. If you wish to correct him/her in any act, do it kindly and respectfully. Just because he/she doesn't do it your way do not mean he/she is wrong. The virtue of friendship is not finding the perfect friend, but loving the imperfect friend perfectly.
Come of age in this day and age, and come to focus with things to do to impress your lover. Impress your lover with those great qualities of yours. Let your acts be the ones that will keep your lover awake, thinking about you. Your impression can make the life of your lover better. It really can.
Don't pack the bags of your sweet words, lovely touch, caring and deep affection yet! I once stumbled on this statement in a book: "It is amazing how a woman's attitude could be altered in seconds whenever she receives a kiss from the man she loves." Remember that we are love beings, and love is the fuel that drives the vehicle of friendship forward and upward, and the fuel is mostly made up of words, touches and actions. William Ward observes, "Love is more than a more - it is a verb; it is more than a feeling - it is caring, sharing, helping, sacrificing."
Finally, let your impression be positive, uplifting, inspiring and encouraging. Let your impression be marked by love, goodness, kindness, integrity and sagacity.
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