How to Be Successful at the First Date

So you finally get her out on a date. Now it's time to figure out what to do on your first date with her. You need to make sure it goes smoothly because this may be your last chance. If she doesn't like you now, she won't go on another date with you.

Let's look at what you should do in order to have a successful first date.

1. Choose your meeting place wisely

Go to a casual place, something like the mall where you can do lots of things. Take her to a movie, go play some games or visit the shops. The idea is to have fun like she was a friend of yours, not your future soul mate. She doesn't want to be treated differently than your friends, she wants to be your friend and lover, so respect her wish and make her feel great around you.

2. Offer to pay

If you go to a movie for example, offer to pay for the ticket and the popcorn. She might not accept it, but you should at least try. After all, you invited her out, so you should take care of her and pay for what she wants.

3. The kiss

Go for the kiss only after you are both feeling great. What I mean is, try to kiss her only at the end of the date when you both had a good time. You can do it earlier too, but you have to make sure she is having a good time.

4. After the date

Please don't believe all those Hollywood movies where the guy takes the girl home after the date and they have wild sex, it just doesn't work that way.

In case she does come back at your place, don't be too desperate. Many girls like to tease the guys by only coming back at their place, but don't want to sleep with them after the first date. Also, you should not expect her to sleep with you just because you've paid for everything on the date.

If she does decide to sleep with you, please use protection. A condom is cheap and will protect you from the majority of the sexually transmitted diseases, not to mention an undesired pregnancy.

All in all I think you should be very careful on your first date. It's your first real chance at making an impression so make sure everything goes well.