One of the worst things that can happen to a guy is to be put in the dreaded "friends zone". We've all heard of it before, and many guys have suffered it a time or two. What exactly is the friends zone though? Understanding what this term means and how to avoid being put in the zone will greatly help you learn how to attract women through proper use of seduction techniques.
The overall process for attraction includes a few steps. First you must create interest within the woman you are attracted to. Curiosity is what attraction is really all about. From there you should work on building trust and rapport. Together trust and rapport help to create an emotional connection between the two of you. Once an emotional connection has been made you can escalate attraction into the stages of seduction using sexually charged communication.
So what's the friend zone? The friends zone is a connection established between you and her which lacks the single element crucial for getting her attracted to you. The connection lacks the sexual escalation created from seduction. If you fail to establish a sexual element to your interaction with a woman, she may like you but the "attractiveness" won't be there. Thus you'll be filed away into the friend zone.
So how can you avoid this fate? It's simple: as you interact with her, keeping in mind that curiosity is all attraction really is, allow sexual innuendos into the conversation. This doesn't mean you should blatantly start talking about sex though. Bring it into the conversation casually or jokingly.
An example that works really well is to tease her about something related to sex. Tell her to quit trying to get you in bed, that you're not quite that easy. This role reversal is playful and will make her laugh, plus it adds the idea of sex into the mix.
Another effective trick you can use is to give her a nickname, one with some form of sexual innuendo attached. For instance, if you happen to be chatting to a sexy blonde and you're building a great connection give her the nickname "Dirty Blondie Girl". She will most likely ask why, or ask what it means. That is when you explain to her that you can sense she is thinking dirty thoughts about you, and she's blonde... so it suits! This is fun, will give you something to laugh about, and establishes an original relationship between the both of you that only you two understand. And it provides a touch of sexuality to the conversation.
Simple things such as bringing sex into her imagination will allow her to see you as a sexual person. This doesn't mean she will view you as a pervert, so don't become confused between the two. Rather, she will see you as more than just a friend and you will actually have a chance at moving your fresh relationship to places beyond just being friends. When you begin to move into seduction she will be much more open to the topic and idea of sexual relations with you, allowing you to avoid being put into the friends zone.
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