If you have started dating your ex again, it is a huge step forward in your attempt to get your ex back and revive your relationship. However, this is still a very sensitive juncture and it is important that you conduct yourself with care to achieve success. Try to implement some of these steps to cement your relationship once again, and enjoy a long and productive second innings.
Creating Different Memories
While you date this time, make sure there is something new and different. You want to create new energy, and break the worry and feeling that this spell might go like last time. Try to go to different places and do new things together, and if you had irritating habits last time round, such as reaching late, make sure you discipline yourself and omit those things from this attempt to get your ex back.
This is not to say, however, that you shouldn't go out to your favorite restaurant for dinner, where you enjoyed a lot of meals together before. You don't need to force changes where they are not necessary. Have a balance. Retain things that were fun before, and create some new memories.
Light and Happy Conversations
To begin with, it is important you keep the vibes positive and the conversations largely light and happy. Getting into an intense conversation at this stage, and having to deal with strong emotions and maybe even a fight can spell trouble for your attempt to revive your relationship. When you are giving yourself a second chance at something that failed before, you need to go about it in slow and gradual steps. Right now you need to get used to each other's company again, and re-discover love and regard for each other.
There will come a time when you will need to discuss some important issues pertaining to how both of you should go about making your relationship better this time. However, that discussion should only happen when you find yourself comfortable in each other's company again, and confident that you can revive your relationship.
A Sexual Relationship
It may not be such a good idea to get physically intimate straightaway, before you have cemented your feelings. An emotional indulgence leading to a sexual one straightaway can cause guilt, and guilt is certainly not the feeling with which either of you wants to start this spell. Both of you must be totally sure of your feelings before you get into a bedroom together.
Giving them Space
If you want to be successful in your bid to get your ex back, you need to face the fact that your ex will be dealing with some pain and confusion, because they broke up with you last time round. It is not easy and he/she may be really emotionally vulnerable. In this situation, it is important to be understanding and supportive. This, once again, means that you need to take it slow. This new closeness must never feel oppressive and overbearing to your partner. Give them some time to adjust, and you will find that the comfort will develop once again and you will be able to revive your relationship smoothly.
With these steps, you should be able to take that finally step and get your ex back for a long and happy spell.
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