Men who are successful with women all realize deep down inside that there is nothing magical or unique about any woman.
One woman can be easily replaced by another. This isn't a sexist belief and it doesn't reduce women in any way. What it does is prevents you from viewing women as superior to you.
It pulls them down off their pedestal in your mind. No woman is "The One." You see, if you stop worrying about what any individual woman thinks of you, then your neediness and desperation both vanish.
The best attitude to have is (as the Greek poet Nikos Kazantzakis put it): "There is only one woman in the world. One woman, with many faces."
This is where a lot of guys in the "seduction community" screw up, especially the ones who are not getting laid. Someone will discover hypnotic patterns or attraction-building routines and try to memorize the hell out of them.
But the net result of all that work is to keep women up on that pedestal. This of course keeps driving them away. Then the guy not getting laid just keeps studying like crazy, trying as hard as he can but rarely getting anything more than a woman's phone number.
Meanwhile, the men who are getting laid are the guys who relax, enjoy themselves and act cool. It's sad really, but the good news for you is that all you need to do is change your mindset and all the sex and romance you'll ever want will flow into your life as naturally as turning on a water faucet.
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