What is it about a woman that makes a man want her? You really wish you had the answer to that question, don't you? Perhaps there have been times within your life that you felt you had men all figured out but then inevitably something happens and you realize they're still nothing but a puzzling mystery to you. When a woman gains some insight into male psychology it can help her see much more clearly what it is about some women that men find utterly irresistible. If you're serious about learning what makes a man want you or not, get ready to delve into the inner workings of the male mind.
Your attitude about yourself is going to play a key role in whether a man wants you or not. I know this isn't news to you. You've heard it before but I'm here to stress it to you. If you're a meek, unconfident girl who doesn't feel she's good enough, any man you get involved with will adopt that same attitude about you. That's not what you want is it? Men are captivated by women who can take or leave them. They love seeing a woman who is completely and utterly in control of her own life. If a woman comes into a relationship with the attitude that she's more than enough, obviously the man she has her sights set on will see that in her and he'll be naturally drawn to it. You're a prize so make him believe it too by showing him that you are.
Another tip about male psychology that will help you grab hold of the man you want and have the relationship you've long desired is if you don't chase after him. It's so hard not to do that when you instinctively feel that he could be "the one." Men can sense when a woman is desperate. That's not an appealing quality to any man. He doesn't want you to place yourself at his feet and proclaim to him that you are his for the taking. He'll see you as too quick to commit and way too serious. Let him do the chasing. He wants to. Don't make it too easy for him to spend time with you and never change plans just because he's called at the last minute to see you. You aren't any man's back up plan. If he wants to spend time together, train him to plan days in advance. That way you'll be showing him that you are worth the wait.
Men have little use for drama. It's easy to understand if you spend any time at all with a man and his friends. They aren't drama queens and they don't cause friction with another just for the thrill of it. Women are notorious for loving drama. Some of us thrive on it and it's never a good thing. It causes stress and anxiety and if you're in a relationship it can cost you the relationship. Men don't want to be subjected to the drama between you and your friends. They don't want to hear about every small thing that went wrong at work today. They love being with someone who can roll with the punches and who doesn't take life or herself, too seriously.
Which leads to one of the most important points you need to remember if you're trying to appeal to a man and make him want you. Embrace the fun in life, always. He doesn't want to be with anyone who is too serious or who takes herself so seriously she can't find her own faults. Live each day to its fullest and be spontaneous and willing to take risks. Let him see that you can think outside the box when it comes to planning dates and don't worry so much about what you're wearing or how your hair looks that you lose sight of the experiences with him. Smile at him. He'll see it as his reward for finding someone as special as you.
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