Awkward flirting is one of the most painful things to watch and it is even more painful to experience. There is not a straight man alive that has not had at least one situation where he was awkwardly flirting with a woman, so pretty much every guy can relate to this. There are lots of reasons why men can come across as being awkward when they try and flirt with a woman, but there is one thing that can take away a lot of that clumsy feeling that you get. And that is to know that you really don't have to rush things.
When people get rushed in trying to impress someone, it's almost inevitable that they are going to get clumsy and awkward. That is because you are trying to do too much with too little and that is never a good thing. You might think that you need to rush things, but that is not exactly what you need to do.
Here are some tips for flirting with a woman that can help make things less awkward:
1) Forced flirting always feels weird, so don't try so hard to force yourself.
The more natural that any encounter with a woman is, the better your chances of actually impressing her are. It never come across as being natural when you try and force your flirtations with a woman. She can tell that is exactly what you are trying to do and the truth is, you are going to end up messing things up. Don't try and force yourself, try and make things seem much more organic and see the difference.
2) Conversation is the simplest way to flirt with her and it can be one of the most effective things if done right.
Why is conversation so effective? Because human beings have the gift of being able to connect with one another through the spoken word. And when a woman feels connected to you, it's only a matter of time before she also finds herself attracted to you. And it is so simple, because any guy can learn how to make conversation with a woman. No special skills are required.
3) Let her do some of the flirting.
Another reason why guys need to pace themselves a bit is because they need to allow the woman to do some of the flirting. If they never give her the chance to flirt back, then what is going to happen? It's going to be an entirely one sided interaction and you can't really build much attraction off of that, can you?
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