Virtually every day of our lives we come across beautiful women and as long as the earth is still in motion we will continue to see even more elegant ones. Like the saying goes"the beautiful ones are not yet born." Men all over the world are looking for new techniques to get any woman they desire and the best way they think is getting articles or books on picking up women. After reading and practicing over a period of time they believe with their new found knowledge they can get any woman to go out with them. How sure are they when it comes to the effectiveness these numerous articles?
Be natural
The number one key and the most important skill of getting any woman you want is to be natural. Let it flow from within you. Believe me or not women know when you go around to memorize these pickup lines from wherever you got them from and recite it to their hearing. She might even have seen it somewhere or her brother might have used it for his girlfriend. First impression is the key thing and if you go to her the way you are not trying to impress her, there is a huge chance that she will accept whatever you are proposing. I for one do not really believe in these pickup lines. Don't be a fake, be original.
Strike up a conversation
If you see a woman you like in the bank, restaurant, anywhere, all you have to do is look at that particular environment and find for something to talk about to enhance a conversation instantly. It could be that the food at the restaurant is taking too long or the cashiers at the bank are slow. Just be creative. Some of these article writers have tagged themselves to be relationships experts so they scare you by saying in other for you to pick up a woman you must follow a certain procedure. You spend weeks planning and never get to do the presentation.
The only thing you have to work on is your communication skills. You do not have to exhaust all the search engines on the internet trying to look for magical pickup lines.You do not have to be somebody you are not just to lay your hands on her complementary card. All you have to do is walk up to her, do not be scared. Stir up stamina and talk to her with all boldness, you will be surprised at the outcome. You might end up getting more than her complimentary card.
Listen
Most women like talking especially when they find you interesting. Do not be selfish. Forget about yourself totally and give her the opportunity to express herself. Look straight into her eyes, it shows that you are paying full attention and really interested in what she is saying. Do not interrupt even if what you want to say is of extreme importance. Let her finish and you can say whatever you want.
This might be the simplest guide you have ever come across but do not be deceived. Just follow these steps and you will be stunned at the results.
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