How to Get a Man to Want You - Try These Techniques to Get the Guy You Want

Do want to know how to get a man to want you? Do you have your eyes on a guy and wonder what it will take to get him to ask you out? Would you like to become more attractive to more guys? Almost every single woman who is not in a committed relationship would like to know the answers to these questions. Here are some techniques you should learn to be more successful in getting a man to want you.

Get Noticed

Obviously you can't get guys to want you if you don't get their attention. There are several ways you can do this. If you want to get attention from guys you need to make sure you are out and about where guys are to be found. Next, you need to look your best when you do go out. You don't need to dress up but you do need to dress carefully. Put on your makeup, make sure your hair looks good and look your best. Not only does this increase your visibility, it is also good for your confidence which is another thing that attracts guys.

Don't Be Shy

If you are too shy you look unapproachable, or at least difficult to approach. When a guy is thinking about approaching a girl, he is going to make a fairly quick decision about whether it is safe for his ego or not. If you look like you might be hard to talk to, he may pass on talking to you even if he would like to. This is especially true if he is with a group of friends. Many guys won't risk looking awkward in front of their buddies, so make it easy for him to meet you.

Be a Great Listener

One of the secrets to attracting people to you in general is to be a good listener. This is especially true when talking with guys. Most guys want to dominate conversation. That's OK. Just make sure you don't tune him out. Show interest and ask questions. In the early stages of relationships some advisors say you should be 80% listener and 20% talker. You can adjust that according to the personality of the guy you are with. But in general, it is a good idea to let the guy do most of the talking. That way you are showing him that you find him interesting and of course this appeals to the male ego.

Be Interesting

Another rule of human attraction is that people are more attracted to interesting people. What that means is that we are drawn to people that are embracing and enjoying life. Guys aren't like they used to be when all they wanted was a mother for their kids and someone to cook for them and clean their homes. These days guys like women who do some of things they like to do. In fact, you should consider trying some things that not all other girls do, like learning to skateboard. You'll find yourself out amongst a bunch of guys and you will be about the only girl out there. Talk about not much competition! Think of something you might enjoy that girls don't usually do and you might find yourself in a pretty exclusive club where you are surrounded by guys and not many other girls.

Practice these techniques and you'll find that it is not that difficult to get a man to want you. Not only that, you'll probably find that you are making more friends and having more fun than you ever thought possible.