When you're out to a bar or club in the night and you strike up a conversation with some attractive girl you might find yourself at a loss of words because you have no idea what to talk about. This is a pretty common problem that most guys experience because you're usually nervous or just worried that the girl might reject you. This is why I've put together this article on tips on how to talk to girls that can help you get more consistent results the next time you find yourself talking to a girl when you're out in a night club or even just during the day in a coffee shop, you can use it them anywhere. So let's look at some tips on how to talk to girls.
1. Talk About What You Like, Interestingly:
The interestingly part is important here, but I want to stress that you can talk about whatever you want with a girl. One time I remember I got this girl really interested in me by just talking about some video game I played but in an interesting funny way. The reason why this works is because it gets you comfortable with the girl and you sort of wipe off any nervousness that you might have had before and this way you won't run out of things to talk about. Keeping it interesting is just a matter of story telling skills and practice, keep talking about what you like consistently and you'll see how you'll get better and better.
2. Talk Loud and Proud:
The reason why I say this is because it communicates many attractive qualities to the girl you're talking to and it will make it much easier to captivate her. Now you don't have to go out and scream but you should project your voice in a way that you don't ever have to lean in or not be heard. This is actually really powerful and can express that raw manly dominance that a girl is always attracted to. You can start practicing this day to day by trying to be a bit louder than you usually are, that way you can get used to it and not even have to think about doing the next time you talk to a girl.
3. Don't Worry About What She Thinks:
A lot of times, guys worry if what they're talking about is interesting to the girl or trying to figure out what she's into. This will kill your conversation because your always in your head trying to think about ways to keep her impressed. You have to free your self from this and keep to the first tip on talking about what you want. If you're the leader of the conversation and offering value then any girl listening will be completely captivated by you.
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