Monday, January 23, 2012

Tips on Surviving Long Distance Relationship




Long distance relationships are very difficult to maintain but it is not impossible.It is going to be a real test of patience for any couple to keep the relationship flowing naturally for a longer period of time. Let me first talk about why are couples going through this phase at all.

Why long distance relationships at all?

The world has changed today and everyone has realised the importance of building a career, looking for new opportunities to strive in this world. Many couples begin dating each other while they are in school or in college or during work. But life does not remain the same always is it? Once school is over, you move to university, or once college is over, you move to work. And many a times people have to move to different cities for university or for work. Sometimes when couples start dating while at work, they even change work for better opportunities and the distance increases. Someone of the two might even goto pursue higher education and thus the distance between the two comes live.

Nobody thinks about all these problems when they start a relationship, since the very human nature makes us look only in the short term rather long term and thus comes these differences. Many a times people even if they know they are not going to remain close to each other, they feel that long distance relationship is easy and can be maintained without any trouble only to realise in future that breaking up is inevitable. Long distance relationship is not something that cannot be done, but the problem arises when you start realising that visiting each other is getting more and more difficult and perhaps you find someone else closer to you which then looks a better option to go with.

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